Lily Allen’s new album West End Girl has gotten people talking, mostly because of how she talks about her ex-husband, actor David Harbour. The album focuses on what she calls a “not-so-mysterious ex,” and she does not hold back. In her songs, she calls him things like “sex addict,” “little boy,” and “f*cking broken.”
According to Daily Dot, fans are loving the album, but one song has people confused and interested at the same time. The eighth track uses internet slang in a way that feels both creative and mean. The words she picked come from two different parts of online culture and work together as an insult.
The line shows up in “4chan stan,” where Allen sings, “What a sad, sad man, it’s giving 4chan stan.” This shows how singers today are using words from the internet to talk about their feelings. TikTok star @ziggsandme pointed this out in a video that went viral, saying, “Lily Allen calling her ex a 4chan stan might be the most British way to destroy a man’s reputation I’ve ever seen. Cheating is one thing. Being outed as a 4chan stan? generational humiliation lol.”
Fans are still figuring out what it all means
The line has left many people wondering what exactly she means. The word 4chan usually makes people think of a certain type of internet user, while “stan” is a word that fans use proudly to describe themselves. Putting them together does not create a clear picture, so people are guessing if she means someone who is obsessed with the internet, acts immature, or just spends too much time online.
People on social media have shared their own ideas about what it means. On Reddit, one person said Allen might have wanted to use a different internet word but went with this one instead because it fit the song better. Another person kept it simple and said, “She’s just implying he’s a loser. She calls him a sad man and a 4chan stan. Like she’s just insulting him in a way that rhymes lol.”
Even though people are not sure what the line means, they still like the song. Comments on the official YouTube music video show fans are happy to have Allen back and respect her honesty. User @celiatr-98 wrote, “She made art out of the mess he left behind.
That’s the sweetest revenge.” Another fan, @tinjadog, said, “LOL it’s like he had no idea who he was married to. I’m so glad she’s come back to us.” Some people made jokes too, with @micaelad96 writing, “RIP David Harbour from Argentina,” and @christinemontero922 quoting another lyric from the album, “‘But you’re not even cute’.”
Allen has said that West End Girl is only partly based on real life and that some songs are not about actual events. Just like how other artists have shared personal moments from their past, Allen’s way of being direct and not using hidden meanings has made listeners feel connected to the album.
Whether fans understand what “4chan stan” really means or not, they seem to like how Allen used internet language to deal with her very public breakup. Stories about celebrity relationships always get attention, much like surprising birthday requests that make headlines.
Published: Nov 3, 2025 03:15 pm