A woman says her fiancé kept claiming he was out making DoorDash deliveries all night, then she checked his phone and found two dating apps

A woman who goes by @defnotwanichko on TikTok says her fiancé kept telling her he was out making DoorDash deliveries, until she checked his phone and found two dating apps, according to the Daily Dot. Her video runs close to nine minutes and has been viewed hundreds of thousands of times. She says it covers only some of what her ex did or was caught doing.

According to her account, the couple had been planning to get married when the late nights began. He told her he was delivering food for DoorDash, and she says she did not think much of it at first because she believed he was earning money for their family. The caption urges other women to leave at the first red flag, as she says people do not change.

She says the nights out grew longer until he was staying out until morning. He offered excuses, including a DoorDash deal or a promise to be home within an hour, but she says he did not come home when he said he would. Over time, the explanations changed, and she says he began telling her he was having mental health problems and needed to go to a hospital.

She says the stories kept changing until she saw what was installed on his phone

When she tried to support him, she says, he was not at the hospital. He then offered other explanations, such as needing to eat first or having an appointment at a different time, and she says that is when she became suspicious. She also alleges that he did go to the hospital at one point but checked himself out.

She says he often turned off location sharing on his phone. When he handed the phone over, she says she found two dating apps installed on it. In her telling, the discovery led her to conclude that his DoorDash shifts and hospital visits may not have been what he described, and she decided to end the relationship.

She says his reaction was angry. She describes him punching and slamming things after she told him it was over, and she says she called the police. Her ex was taken to the hospital, according to her account, and she says the breakup was finalized afterward. No statement from him was included in coverage of the video.

DoorDash couriers, known as Dashers, work as independent contractors who choose when to log on. The video does not accuse the company of anything, however, and DoorDash is mentioned only as the explanation her ex gave for the nights he was away from home, which she says she believed at first.

Other women have shared similar breakdowns, including a woman who divorced her husband of 13 years after he confessed to cheating, and she says what he did when their three year old saw her crying sealed it. The DoorDash story involves an engagement and not a marriage, however, and both accounts center on a partner’s secrets coming to light.

The on screen text in the video promises a nine minute story and asks who she almost married. Her caption describes the video as a warning to other women, and she says it includes only some of the things her ex did or was caught doing, so the full account of what happened in the relationship remains unclear.

The video remains available on TikTok, and neither her ex nor DoorDash has commented in coverage of the video published so far.

Attack of the Fanboy was unable to independently verify her ex’s side of the story, as this account originates solely from @defnotwanichko’s TikTok video.